
Most working brides spends 10 hours a week planning their wedding, according to a recently released survey by
ForbesWoman, TheKnot.com and WeddingChannel.com.
... I know, I mean, who the heck has time for that? It turns out they do it on company time, which most of us who've ever worked with a bride know: Almost 90% brides admitted to planning their weddings on company time, and one in three felt their workplace performance suffered because of it.
The survey looked at more than 1,000 working women (most of whom are college-educated, live in the U.S. and make more than $70k). Of course, most of the survey respondents came through TheKnot.com — so, presumably the sample skewed to the bridezilla side. I hope a regular sample of women would give me more hope.
Let me clarify: I'm not totally disappointed by my fellow women, but I'm kind of turned off by this complete obsession around one party and the continued female responsibility to plan it, even though most of us have careers. It's true men are more involved, but 90% of respondents said their fiance spends less planning time. Women still bring this on themselves/succumb to the cultural pressure to do it (OK, and maybe even enjoy it).
I'm certainly not anti-marriage or anti-wedding, but it seems like the tradition has gotten out of hand, turning into a big boring hobby for so many people. We shouldn't have to decide whether to have a life or plan a wedding.
Now, about that maid of honor speech I need to write...
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